Wonder Love Membership
Why Do Smart, Loving Women Lose Desire — And How Do You Get It Back?
Wonder Love is the ongoing membership space where women in long-term relationships awaken their desire, their body, and their voice — without fixing their partner or forcing anything.
Imagine wanting sex again.
Feeling connected to your body instead of avoiding it.
Saying what you want without overthinking—and actually being met.
Feeling comfortable and at ease talking about sex.
And being in a relationship that actually feels good to be in.
After coaching hundreds of women who made this life-changing shift, I created this membership so you can experience it too.
I don’t work with women who want to fix their husband.
I work with women who are starting to notice…
something deeper is happening inside themselves.
Women who are:
in long-term relationships or marriages
smart, capable, emotionally aware
functioning well on the outside
but quietly disconnected on the inside
Underneath all of that…they’ve lost connection to themselves inside the relationship.
They’ve learned how to cope.
How to manage.
How to hold everything together.
What they haven’t learned are the practical steps to reconnect with their desire, their voice, and their body
…and become the woman who feels alive, expressed, and fully present in her intimacy.
If you’ve found yourself saying something like this, the Wonder Love membership was created for you:
'I don't feel like myself anymore'
‘I can’t believe I’m a grown woman and I still don’t feel comfortable talking about sex’
‘Sometimes I feel like I hate my husband.
‘I like, never, want to have sex with him
'He wants sex more than I do'
‘I definitely feel like something is wrong with me. I have zero libido’
‘He doesn’t listen to me’
‘I’m exhausted and resentful’
'I WANT to want sex, but I just don't right now'
‘I’m living with a roommate, not a husband.’
‘He gets defensive no matter how I say things’
‘I actually cannot answer the question, ‘what do you want?’
This is where you go from thinking…
I’m broken. Disconnected. Why don’t I want this?”
To becoming the woman who knows herself, feels herself, and expresses what she wants—without fear, guilt, or shutdown
Because at a certain point, it’s not just frustrating…
You’re hit with the realization:
“I cannot keep living like this for another year.”
This is for the woman who:
Is in a long-term relationship and has lost interest in sex,
lost their libido, feels discomfort around the topic of sex
and has a genuine interest in improving intimacy and relational dynamics in her life.
What exactly is the Wonder Love membership?
This isn’t therapy.
It’s not a course.
And it’s not about fixing your partner.
This is an intimate, ongoing coaching space where you learn how to:
stay connected to yourself inside your relationship
feel your body instead of disconnecting from it
express what you want without shutting down or over-explaining
experience intimacy as something that’s for you—not something you give
You’re not broken if you struggle with this.
No one ever taught you how to do this.
And these are skills you can learn.
f you feel intrigued, curious, or slightly uncomfortable reading this, that’s usually the signal.
I created this membership because of feedback like this:
“Stephanie makes the uncomfortable, comfortable”
— B.R.“She makes me feel so comfortable and confident as a woman”
— M.G.“She opened a world I didn’t even know existed let alone that I needed
— K.H.
Stephanie’s Story: From Disconnected To Desire
I didn’t always understand desire, intimacy, or relationships this way.
Like many women, I used to think:
low desire meant something was wrong
communication needed to be carefully managed to avoid conflict
intimacy was something you either had… or didn’t
What I’ve come to understand—through years of deep work, study, and lived experience—is something very different:
Desire isn’t something you force.
It’s something you learn how to feel again.
Disconnection in relationships isn’t a communication problem. It starts with a self-connection problem.
And intimacy doesn’t come from trying harder, it comes from knowing how to stay in your body, even when it’s uncomfortable.
This is the lens I bring into this space. Beyond theory and surface-level advice.
Instead, a way of seeing and working with yourself that actually creates change.
Personally, I have built and continue to build the relationship I desire with my partner of 14 years while we raise 3 daughters together.
And over the last few years I've coached hundreds of women to feel confident and unashamed of their sexual desires and expression and to feel desirous toward their partner again.
Alongside my extensive training in sexuality, relationships, and relational dynamics from world-renowned teachers such as Layla Martin, Terry Real and Esther Perel, this means I have the theoretical understanding and real-world experience to cause this transformation for you too.
But Stephanie, I can barely say the words “sex” or “vagina” without feeling awkward let alone talk about sex and intimacy in a group setting
That’s the beauty of this. You can have your cameras off and be muted for as many group calls as it takes to begin getting comfortable with me and the other women. You slowly warm up at your own pace, in sync with your nervous system and your capacity.
You’ll be celebrated for honouring yourself.
Membership Details
Core Membership (Group Work)
(3 group coaching sessions p/month & content library access & community space for shared learning)
For women who want consistent support, perspective, and guidance inside a group space.
You’ll be part of weekly group coaching calls where we work with:
desire and libido in long-term relationships
emotional safety and resentment
communication that doesn’t escalate or collapse
reconnecting to your body and sense of self
navigating intimacy without forcing it
You’ll also have access to the content library so you can revisit key concepts and practices in your own time.
This may not be for you if:
you want frequent, individualized attention
you’re in acute crisis and need intensive support
you don’t want to engage in live calls
Expanded Membership
(Group Coaching + 2 Private Sessions)
For women who want group support + personalized guidance to work through their specific patterns and dynamics.
This tier includes everything in the Core Membership, plus two 45-minute private sessions per month.
Private sessions are where we:
work directly with your specific relationship dynamic
untangle patterns that feel too personal or sensitive for group
go deeper into body-based, parts-informed work
translate insight into real-life changes you can actually sustain
This is ideal if you want:
more individualized attention
help integrating what comes up in group
support navigating active challenges in your relationship
You still benefit from the wisdom of the group — with added space that’s just for you.
This may not be for you if:
you want weekly private sessions
you prefer only self-paced learning
you’re not ready to engage more deeply with your inner world
Intensive Membership
(Group Coaching + 4 Private Sessions)
For women who want ongoing, high-touch support and to create real momentum in their relationship and inner world.
This is the most high-touch, supported way to work with me.
It includes:
weekly group coaching three times p/month
four 45-minute private sessions per month
full access to the content library
community space for shared learning
This tier is for women who are:
actively navigating complex or emotionally charged relationship dynamics
wanting consistent, week-to-week support
ready to make meaningful shifts and want guidance while doing so
craving a place where nothing is “too much” or “too complicated”
This level allows for continuity, depth, and momentum — without overwhelm.
This may not be for you if:
you’re looking for a light-touch experience
you prefer occasional or passive support
you’re not ready to prioritize this work in your life
What’s included?
Core: $100/month
Expanded: $300/month
Intensive: $500/month
Choose your level of support
There’s no “right” tier — only the level of support that fits your current season.
Some women start in group and upgrade later.
Some know they want private support right away.
All tiers are designed to be valuable, ethical, and effective.
You are not locked in.
You can move between tiers as your needs change.
You’re welcome to:
upgrade when you want deeper or more frequent support
move to a lower tier when you feel more resourced
stay exactly where you are
What clients are saying about working with Stephanie:
“I feel so free to touch myself and not feel guilty. I always felt guilty. Now I feel so free. My husband and I get in the shower together. I have no problem saying 'touch me where I want' — I would never have said that before meeting Stephanie. Freedom to be me.”
— Sally R.
She went from feeling guilty about her own body — to asking for exactly what she wants
“It felt like opening a world I didn't even know existed, let alone that I needed. I had no idea where to start when it came to the block I had on physical intimacy. Conversations have been so much easier — I also understand why I feel the way I do and what I can do to make changes. I am no longer afraid of my own body.”
— Kirsty H.
She found a space where nothing was off-limits — and brought that openness to her husband
“Working with Stephanie felt like authenticity. Fun, sex, nothing is off-limits. I gained bravery to discuss anything sexually related, openness to explore parts of myself, and intimacy in discussing what I learned in sessions with my husband after. I felt truly held in my experience — like I could fully be myself.”
— Amy M.
She was blocked on physical intimacy — now she's no longer afraid of her own body
“One of my biggest takeaways is that 'I am normal.' It is very easy to get in your head and believe that something is broken in you when it comes to intimacy or sex, but Stephanie normalized everything I was feeling and experiencing. She helped me reframe some things and come up with a plan to start to break down the learned behaviours and historical challenges I had with being intimate — and how to voice this to my partner.”
— Becky P.
She thought something was broken in her — now she knows she was always normal
She realized she'd been putting herself last — and started choosing herself.
“Working with Stephanie felt like genuine help. I gained extremely high self-confidence for the first time in my life from perspective shifts I would not have been able to see without Stephanie's help. I learned how to be a much more mature communicator in life — not just my relationship. Every session was so calm I felt comfortable opening up, which I have had problems with in the past.”
— Gill M.
She gained the highest self-confidence of her life — by finally seeing her own blind spots
I felt a sense of community with other women. I learned that I put my wants last and don't communicate as well as I'd like. Sharing and being honest in conversation with other women felt like a judgement free zone. Communication is so important — I need to practice it more.”
— Ruth P.
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This Is The Moment Everything Changes
How many months—how many years—of not wanting, not feeling, not knowing, are you willing to trade for true desire, ease, and connection?
Disconnection costs more than money; it costs joy, confidence, and all the moments you can’t get back.
This is live coaching — the room is open every week, with or without you.
Every month you wait is a month you’re not getting what you want.
Here's what every woman in a long-term relationship needs to know about awakening desire
Women don’t need fixing.
They need permission, safety, and exposure to what’s possible.
You don’t need to fix your husband.
You don’t need another person involved in awakening your sex drive
Low libido is often a nervous system issue
Desire begins outside of the bedroom
You can’t want what you’ve never been introduced to
This membership offers a regulated, intelligent pathway out of sexual shutdown so that you can reconnect with your body, your desire, and the parts of yourself you didn’t know were missing.
Frequently Asked Questions:
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You don’t need to decide that here.
This work doesn’t ask you to:
excuse bad behavior
tolerate what isn’t okay
take responsibility for everything
It helps you understand:
what’s yours
what isn’t
and how to respond without losing yourself
Clarity tends to create movement internally first, relationally second.
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Perfect.
That’s not a blocker, but a starting point.
Many women come in saying:
“I don’t know what I want.”
“I don’t feel much.”
“I just feel tired.”We don’t demand answers.
We help you listen.