Updated: November 26, 2022
Winter has arrived in my part of the world and I can feel myself curl up into a ball of sweatpants, blankets, and top knots.
The skin-bearing sunshine of the summer is long behind us and it’s a challenge to find ways to feel sexy.
This winter is the first where I will intentionally make an effort to feel beautiful, radiant, and even sexy on the coldest, dreariest of days.
Here is what I intend to implement:
Skirts
I so rarely wear skirts or dresses even in the summer, even though when I do, I IMMEDIATELY feel sexier! What do I deprive myself of this!? I’m going to add a few pieces to my wardrobe to help in this department including a couple of seasonal casual dresses that I can wear in my daily life, a pleather skirt for nights out, and some knee-high tights to keep things ultra hot!
Flirt
I’ll amuse myself by coming enchanted with life and people and intend to flirt more! It’s a way to extract out of yourself what you find attractive in people and be playful with your exchanges with them. This could almost be seen as a gratitude practice. Purposefully finding something attractive in another increases your feel-good hormones. And feeling good is sexy!
MORE Self Pleasure
I like to self-pleasure as a regular practice (peek at my free Self Pleasure Guide to see what I get up to in a self-pleasure practice) but this winter I’m going to up the ante. I plan on increasing the frequency of the time I set aside for this. In my busiest weeks, I usually commit to once per week of a 30-minute practice. Usually, it’s more like 3-4 times per week. But this winter I want to see what happens and how I feel if I can make it 5-6 times per week!
Experiment with Makeup
A guilty pleasure of mine is going down a YouTube rabbit hole of watching makeup tutorials. When you know you’re stuck in the house for some time, this is a good time to try something new and experiment with new makeup products, techniques, colors, and styles! You’ll almost always find something that you never would have known works really well for you. I lean toward neutral, with browns and golds on my eyes and very rarely any lip color. This winter I’m going to try styles that I’ve never attempted [i.e. different eras like the ’20s, ’30s, ’40s, super glam/celebrity, editorial] and see where it takes me!
Okay, those are the four ideas I’m committing to. I know there are other ways to increase sexiness in the winter months but I can’t put too much on my expectation list!
Here are some other ideas if you’re curious about doing something similar for yourself this winter:
Scents - fill your home, bath, or bedroom with scents like fill you with pleasure
Underwear Lingerie - grab a new set of ultra-sexy panties and a bra
Laugh - put on some comedy or hop on a zoom call with your dearest girlfriends
Velvets, Leather, and Lace - these textiles are intrinsically sexy and winter friendly
Strut - swing those hips!
Lipstick - if you don't wear it, try it! if you do, try different shades!
Heels - the ones that make you stand up straighter and feel tall and proud - not the ones that cripple your feet ;)
Hair - again, YouTube tutorials can be a fabulous place to get some inspiration on new do
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